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Love Scams On Social Media Especially Facebook Groups...

Love scams on social media have become an all-too-common occurrence in recent years, leaving a trail of broken hearts, shattered trust, and empty bank accounts in their wake. Victims of these scams often find themselves struggling to come to terms with the reality of what has happened, wondering how they could have been so naive and trusting. As someone who has witnessed the devastating effects of these scams firsthand, I feel compelled to share the stories of those who have been hurt by them, in the hopes that it might serve as a warning to others.

One of the most common tactics used by love scammers is to create a fake online persona, often using stolen photos and personal information to create a convincing profile. They then use this profile to approach potential victims, striking up a conversation and gradually building trust over time. Many victims report feeling a deep emotional connection with their scammer, believing that they have found true love.

Experience of a Victim

One such victim is Biodun, a 32-year-old nurse from Ikeja who fell victim to a love scam last year. She met her scammer on a popular dating site and, like many others, was swept off her feet by his charming personality and romantic gestures. They spoke every day for weeks, and Biodun felt like she had finally found her soulmate.

However, things took a dark turn when her scammer started asking for money. He claimed that he needed the money to pay off debts or to buy a plane ticket from Abuja to come and visit her. Believing that she was helping the man she loved, Biodun sent him thousands of Naira over the course of several months.

It wasn't until Biodun's sister urged her to do some investigating that she discovered the truth about her scammer. She had been sending money to a man who had no intention of ever meeting her, let alone falling in love with her. The realization hit her like a ton of bricks, leaving her feeling humiliated, ashamed, and heartbroken.

Biodun's story is not unique. In fact, the number of love scams reported to law enforcement agencies has skyrocketed in recent years, with the NPF reporting a 70% increase in the number of reported romance scams between 2019 and 2023 alone. The financial losses reported by victims of these scams are staggering, with the average loss being around N9,200,000.

It's not just the financial losses that hurt, however. Victims of love scams often report feeling a deep sense of betrayal and embarrassment, wondering how they could have been so foolish as to fall for such a blatant lie. They may also struggle with feelings of guilt, blaming themselves for what has happened and feeling like they have let their friends and family down.

For many victims, the experience of falling victim to a love scam is a painful and traumatic one that stays with them for years to come. They may struggle to trust others again, fearing that they will be taken advantage of once more. They may also find themselves struggling with depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues as a result of the trauma they have experienced.

So what can be done to prevent love scams from happening in the first place?

One of the most important things is to be aware of the signs of a scam. These can include things like a reluctance to meet in person, frequent requests for money, and inconsistencies in their stories.

It's also important to take steps to protect your personal information online, such as being careful about what you share on social media and avoiding sharing sensitive information like your home address or financial details.

Above all, it's important to remember that love scams can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. Victims of these scams deserve compassion and support, not judgment or criticism. By speaking out about our experiences and educating others about the dangers of love scams, we can help to prevent others from falling victim to the same.

Find time to contact the Founder of NSPL should incase you want to get a serious minded easily monitored partner, don't just assume you can swim with the sharks of scammers in the ocean of social media, you will be guided, guarded and tutored on how to go about it.

- Think about it.

Oladipupo O. Iyowun
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